Nope. That's you watching too many Singaporean Chinese dramas. In reality you always have a bit of everything - both guys and girls put in effort into their relationships to make them work. Things are never one-sided -- it is rarely about one party giving all and taking nothing, and the other doing nothing but taking. It is up to you to judge whether or not you put in more effort than someone else, but consider carefully before you try to judge someone. Things are rarely as simple as they seem on the surface, and woe betide anyone who allows his/her opinions to be one-sided/shallow/superficial.
Different people take away different things from any kind of experience. It is up to the individual to make the most out of that, to remain positive, and to become a better person.
So, what kind of person do you want to be? I think that's the most important question. I'm on my way to finding the answer, and I hope you will too. :)
Just putting my two cents' worth of comments on your Chinese posts here. Hehehehe. ^_^
Nope. That's you watching too many Singaporean Chinese dramas. In reality you always have a bit of everything - both guys and girls put in effort into their relationships to make them work. Things are never one-sided -- it is rarely about one party giving all and taking nothing, and the other doing nothing but taking. It is up to you to judge whether or not you put in more effort than someone else, but consider carefully before you try to judge someone. Things are rarely as simple as they seem on the surface, and woe betide anyone who allows his/her opinions to be one-sided/shallow/superficial.
ReplyDeleteDifferent people take away different things from any kind of experience. It is up to the individual to make the most out of that, to remain positive, and to become a better person.
So, what kind of person do you want to be? I think that's the most important question. I'm on my way to finding the answer, and I hope you will too. :)
Just putting my two cents' worth of comments on your Chinese posts here. Hehehehe. ^_^